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How Fantasia Ministers More than the Average Sermon

I, for one, am all for unorthodox ministry.  Every time I hear Fantasia Barrino sing, I feel as though that is exactly what she is doing: unorthodox ministry. Back in June, a Facebook Live video that Fantasia posted went viral across the social media platform with her and her background singers in ten minutes of pure worship. She begins the video wiping her eyes with tissue and states: “this one of those days when you’re tired, you’re away from your family, and he just came right in the room and got on the piano” (talking about…

For Those Who Thought I Had it all Together – Let Me Tell Ya Somethin

I’ve always been a go-getter. Elders in my family like to call me a “busy-body” and insist that I learn how to “go sit down somewhere because I do too much” but I always shoo it off and continue to go about my business. For those who know me, even if they don’t know me a great deal, the accolades I’ve received and the many things I’ve accomplished over the years aren’t a surprise to anybody. From my role as a graduate student to an entrepreneur all while being a single parent – I’m not doing anything…

Black Parents Raising Black Kids in America

“Mommy, but kids can’t die right?” That is the question my daughter asked me as we were walking up to the vigil for Jamyla Bolden, the 9-year-old girl from Ferguson who was fatally shot while sitting on her mothers’ bed doing homework by a man who shot into the bedroom window. Just two streets over from where Mike Brown’s body laid slain for over 4.5 hours in the hot sun just a year before. After hearing the tragic news, I wanted to come and give the family support for the loss of their loved one and…

6 Things to Consider for Adults Going Back to School

Time has progressively shown the value of education and has proven that the further along you go, the higher your salary will be depending on your profession. There has been an influx of adults choosing to go back to school just to keep up with the market and many adults are going back with an already full plate: full-time job, spouse, and kids. If you are a traditional college student (enroll and complete college straight after high school) there are tons of resources readily available for you. There is a large population of students who fall…

July 8th Journal Entry: Lord……

Good morning Lord, “Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne; love and faithfulness go before you” – Psalm 89:14 What is going on today isn’t new to us or new to You, but I’m sure you are hurting as if this is the first time. You give us free will and in return, we spit in your face. We exude hatred towards Your children on a daily basis and expect you to Keep blessing us. I’m not sure how many times the word “love” is used in the bible, but I know it is…

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Say it Loud: Washed Up & I’m Proud

  For the past year or so, I’ve been getting called out about how unavailable I’ve been and how “boring” I’ve grown to be. I’m simply just tired of feeling guilty about it. I’m pretty sure I’ve been called everything from “washed, lame, fake, boring,” everything but my damn name. In my defense, my unavailability is not due to pure laziness or dismissiveness, but the goals that I aspire to reach now that I’m closer to 30 require more time, attention, and discipline. All the memes on social media state that your twenties consist of turn…